Love at last sight. . .

“Grass is always green on the other side is a very common saying. But, is it? What I have learnt is that maybe your garden is just suitable for a different type of grass. All you have to do to make your side greener and highly flourishing is that take care of it, nurture it the right way “in the right season”!!  Now you totally can’t expect apples to start flowering in summer. So basically grab the right opportunity once you know your capabilities.

 

Opportunities are what we do not grab that is where we lack cause if that is what we did correctly we would all feature in the times countdown of most successful, powerful or desirable people!! We do regret it, we curse ourselves, we fuss a lot about it, crib about it and what not but all this, only when its too late…when it’s gone we realize that that is what we love, that is what we want more than anything in the life.. You see something, but you don’t really see it, it’s like in the wings. Or you notice it but nothing clicks, nothing strikes or catches!!! And before you even aware of a presence, or of something troubling you, the time that was offered to you with it has already passed and it’s either already gone or is about to leave. And you scramble to get yourself in terms with something that was brewing your mind for a long time right under your nose and bears all the symptoms of what you call “I WANT”! How could I not know?!?! You ask yourself a zillion times, I know desire when I see it right away but yet this time it slipped, out of all times only this time…

 

This is what I call “LOVE AT LAST SIGHT”! Life is kind of short and trust me it just NOT like it’s never too late. We fight, cheat, ignore each other and sour the relationship so much that we aren’t really left with a choice but to end it, but if its someone you love, you regret it too later and miss the times with him later. The absence of that thing or the person you love creates a whole space, an empty void in your life that can only be filled in by the fond memories, and as you remember it over a cup of coffee you say to yourself “ I wish I knew it, I wish it was love at first sight and not love at last sight”!!

 

 

P.S. there are many things I regret, many fights I wish I dint get into, many relationships I wish I dint sour, many thing I wish I could get back to normal and most importantly I wish I knew I wanted it all earlier!